“Actions speak louder than words”, is a popular saying. Does it make any meaning to you? YES, I guess most people will answer if is a job interview question. The truth is on your way to adulthood you might have come across people who tell you that those who talk the talk are not the real people who do the action. Basically, yes they are not. They only know how talk a lot and practise a little.
How do you handle them is the one million question? There are thousands people mostly the 21th century politicians give you all kinds of promises during their political campaign in the name of democracy and do little to back it up. Do you just tune them out when they come to you with those massages you know is only talk with no better practice? If you do I won’t blame you but some will say you are rude-meaning you can’t help to teach them the change they need.
Here is a few tips I found on how to deal with people with no action. We can’t change them all that is the fact. Maybe we can use this tips to live among them.
It’s absolutely meaningless try to persuade them to practice what they preach, because they don’t give dame about your feelings. So just sit and watch, which in the other hand don’t provide immediate answer but in a long run they will understand your point.
Point the pass promises, If is a Politian confront them immediately, (depending on the kind of person you are) and tell them the past promises. I think is the best way to stop them and to stop their talking infection and teach them is better to practice than to talk a lot.
Whatever they said during their cheap talk, do not overstretch. Just only listen and proof you point later.
You can choose not to listen to the person. Here the choice is yours. Deicide immediate to avoid jeopardize your credentials by becoming or acting like the person.
Lastly Zen proverbs said, although I am not a student of Zen but something answer can be found . . . “The ten thousand questions are one question. If you cut through the one question, then the ten thousand questions disappear”. Meaning you can learn to teach them because if you educate one today, you educate thousands tomorrow.
The five tips I think can help but don’t think they are the perfect otherwise I won’t pick your calls when you get beat up.
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